Common reasons people seek sex therapy

People seek sex therapy for many different reasons. Some clients come to therapy because they are experiencing a specific concern, while others simply want to deepen intimacy and improve their relationship with sexuality.

Common concerns addressed in sex therapy include:

• Low or mismatched sexual desire

• Difficulty communicating about sex

• Sexual anxiety or shame

• Erectile difficulties

• Pain during sex

• Challenges with arousal or orgasm

• Recovery from sexual trauma

• Body image concerns

• Changes in sexuality after life transitions

• Differences in sexual preferences or interests

• Navigating consensual non-monogamy or polyamory

• Intimacy challenges within long-term relationships

• Exploring sexual identity, orientation, or desires

How I approach sex therapy

My approach to therapy is collaborative, affirming, and tailored to your unique experiences and goals.

I recognize that sexuality exists within a larger context that includes relationships, culture, family experiences, identity, trauma history, and societal messages. Rather than focusing solely on symptoms, we work together to understand the broader factors contributing to your concerns.

My work is informed by:

• Internal Family Systems (IFS)

• Trauma-informed care

• Attachment-based approaches

• Relational therapy

• Sex-positive and affirming practices

• LGBTQIA+ affirming therapy

• Polyamory and consensual non-monogamy affirming therapy

I strive to create a space where clients feel respected, understood, and empowered to explore topics that may feel vulnerable or difficult to discuss elsewhere.

Why work with an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist?

Sex therapy is a specialized field requiring advanced education and training. Not all therapists receive formal training in sexuality, sexual functioning, or intimacy-related concerns.

As an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST), I have completed extensive education, supervision, and clinical training through the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT).

Working with a certified sex therapist means working with someone who has specialized expertise in helping clients navigate a wide range of sexual and relational concerns.

**Disclaimer: I am not a sexual surrogate, somatic sex educator, tantra worker, or sex worker.